diamondblue I'm not sure what kind of women you date but the ones i date dont work like that. if shes pist and thinks its worth screaming at you for then shes going to get a reaction. if you sit there and act like you dont give a rats ass shes going to push and push untill you do.
"well fine then ass hole.......crash," and she starts breaking things then when your like wtf ? she says nothing and acts like she dont give a rats ass. ive found the best way to handle that is to act just as pist as they are. scream back for a moment then quickly agree with them on a small point " well maybe your right about that but i sure the hell dont want to talk about it" and act like your mad at yourself for maybe being wrong and the fights over. she thinks she won and shuts up and she dont want to push it be causes there no need to.
you have to act like you think the problem is as bad as they think it is, show the same level of emotions, then act like you were wrong on a smaller point so you dont have to on the bigger points. it keeps it nice and short.